The nice guys

"And most  of these guys were not assholes and creeps,
but nice guys - the ones women always say they're looking for
yet at the same time never seem attracted to."
Neil Strauss - Rules of the Game

When it comes to approaching women I have a problem with insisting and pressing on. I met a lot of men advocating this "method" but I think there is a subtle difference in women that as time goes by seems more and more relevant. And that is:
The woman of the same nature with man but opposing sign vs. the object woman.
The former is like electricity poles or, better yet, magnetic poles - same nature but different, opposing, attracting signs. The latter is of different nature, somehow inferior; the partner presses it, commands it and disposes of it as of an object.